Ten Books Which Have Changed My Life

I wouldn't call myself a voracious reader, in fact, I rarely read for entertainment. I do like to read for information, though. Although the internet is a good place to find information, the variety available in print and the depth into which a book can go means that books are a unique source for much knowledge.

Man's Search for Meaning by Viktor Frankel

This book was required reading in a very interesting and innovative religion class I took in high school. Frankel describes his experiences in a Nazi concentration camp, but the purpose of this book is not to describe the horrors of the concentration camps. Instead this a very hopeful book because it is about survival. Frankel, a psychiatrist, used these experiences to formulate a new theory of psychotherapy called Logotherapy based on power of the search for meaning in human life.

Your Erroneous Zones by Wayne Dyer

The human potential movement is a 70's cliche, I admit. Your Erroneous Zones talked about all those things that hold people back from achieving their goal in life. Perhaps these ideas were put forth by many others, but this book puts them in a concise and readable manner. Before you spend $500 for a seminar to teach you how to achieve your goals, try reading this and see if it answers your questions.

The Way of Zen by Allen Watts

No doubt there are many good books on Zen, but this is the one I read. Strangely popular in our culture, Zen presents a viewpoint very different from the traditional American one.

Behind the Sex of God by Carol Ochs

This book examines the elements of matriarchy and patriarchy in religions. Without being one of those feminist diatribes which leave no way for a man to relate, Ochs closely examines the implication of matriarchal vs. patriarchal religion on such things as cosmology, the problem of evil and the meaning of life. It was this book that led me to the beliefs I have today.

Drawing Down the Moon by Margot Adler

Drawing Down the Moon described the contemporary neo-pagan movement, it's religious and philosophical beliefs and the communities that practice neo-paganism. Neo-paganism presented a view on life that was both innovative and strangely resonant with what I already believed. The book was an important signpost in my spiritual journey.

The Nine Nations of North America by Joel Garreau

Not so much changing my view of life, this book gave me a new understanding of North America, one that divided the continent into Nine "nations" based not on political boundaries, but on cultural and social phenomena. I found his ideas fascinating and totally accurate.

Miss Manners' Guide to Excruciatingly Correct Behavior by Judith Martin

Not simply a reference book for "which fork to use" Miss Manners' Guide presents a philosophy of manners which I find both benevolent and practical. Judith Martin's delightful wit permeates the book making it totally entertaining.

The Homosexual Matrix by Charles Tripp

This book about homosexuality written not by a psychologist, but by an anthropologist, presented a positive and rational assessment. Tripp takes the position that homosexuality is not a pathological condition, but rather a case of human variation. It was a book that helped me a lot with my coming out.

Inside the IBM PC by Peter Norton

Because I read this book in the 80s, I found myself ahead of most people in my understanding of computer hardware and software. This book (now obsolete, as the machine it describes) was very readable and yet presented a lot of detailed information which made a good basis for my further explorations in the world of computers.

Sexual Personae by Camille Paglia

I don't know if I like what this book did to me, but Sexual Personae showed me the emptiness in the liberal philosophy. These faults were something that I knew already but simply ignored. Since I already know the faults of right wing philosophies, I am left without committed political beliefs. Kind of a quandary, isn't it?